Excessive gambling can often lead to trouble for many people who spend more than they can afford to. Chasing losses and attempting to win back more than losing is a trap that many fall into and have trouble getting out of. Ultimately, such actions can destroy family relationships, bring legal consequences or in some cases even result in death.
A recent report released by Yahoo Life UK told the story of a 41-year-old man who suffered from a gambling addiction for years, lost his job and even went to jail, before finally getting back to his feet with the help of Gamblers Anonymous, his loved one and family members.
The case involved a person whose name was redacted to Simon. Similar to many young people, Simon began gambling at the age of 19. While initially, he placed casual bets with friends while enjoying soccer, at some point, he started pouring money into gambling.
The hundreds of pounds spent on wagers became thousands, while his addiction was fueled even further. But what was most concerning for Simon’s case, which can be the case for many people suffering from gambling addiction, is that nobody suspected him of gambling away such excessive amounts.
Gamblers Anonymous Helped Change His Life
The 41-year-old man is now free from gambling addiction and has been since January 2023 when he first joined Gamblers Anonymous. Simon said that since becoming a part of the support group, he hasn’t spent a single penny on gambling. He added: “It’s the longest period I’ve been without gambling since I was 19, and it’s changed my life.”
According to Simon, every person who gambles away more than they can afford has a problem. “Being addicted isn’t about how much you’re spending. I gambled away millions, but if you’re spending more than you can afford, even if that’s just £100, you’ve got a problem,” he revealed.
Despite the years of struggle with his gambling addiction, the man couldn’t tell what triggered his addiction. Still, he said that he understands the devastating impact of gambling, adding that if he hadn’t stopped gambling when he did, he would have likely lost everything, including his business, wife and two children.
Stealing Money from Work Results in a Jail Sentence
As noted, Simon started betting on soccer with friends, but he quickly got into spending hefty sums. While he was still gambling, his addiction loomed, resulting in him being involved in the activity 24 hours a day, seven days a week. Undoubtedly, the convenience of online betting played a key role in this process, and in Simon’s words: “gambling consumed my every thought.”
He was employed as an accountant, had a good job and had easy access to credit. But Simon’s gambling addiction was spiraling out of control and resulted in him losing tens of thousands a day.
However, the man’s downfall was near when he eventually started stealing from work. Borrowing money, selling items such as a car and using gambling wins to pay back borrowed money could only go so far and in the end, Simon confessed to stealing more than £600,000 ($747,200) to the management of the company he was employed at the time.
This marked a difficult period for the man, who was subsequently arrested while his fiancée at the time broke up with him and changed the locks to the house where they used to live. Eventually, Simon was sentenced to six years in jail where he continued to engage in different gambling activities along with other inmates.
He estimated losing a total of £4 million ($5 million) and years of his life over the crippling gambling addiction. Fortunately, as noted, Simon was able to kick off his addiction with the help of Gamblers Anonymous and his family.